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Em Buckman
Feb 1212 min read
Writing my first novel
...In my sixties! I've always loved writing. For my personal enjoyment (and therapy) I've kept a journal for over forty years and I wrote...
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Em Buckman
Jan 219 min read
Imposter Syndrome
"Oh no, this is not good." "I am a terrible writer!" "No-one will ever read my writing." "I don't think I can do this." "Who do I think I...
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Em Buckman
Jun 4, 20247 min read
The Great British U-Turn
With the general election nearly upon us in the UK, many are ruminating about this government’s track record, whilst also anticipating...
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Em Buckman
May 13, 202410 min read
The drug that had me hooked for years
Today is Sunday 5th May 2024. It's a day I will remember as I have just taken my last ever dose of the anti-depressant paroxetine. After...
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Em Buckman
May 6, 202415 min read
A brief history of trans representation in culture
May 6th 2024 sees the start of the first Trans History Week. In this article, I take a look at how trans, non-binary and gender fluid...
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Em Buckman
May 4, 20249 min read
What is good writing?
In order to write, we need to be able to master many things. Our brain generates thoughts which we organise into ideas that we then...
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Em Buckman
Apr 18, 202414 min read
Woke: a little word with a big reach
In this article I explore what the word woke means to different people. I look at the historical context and also at what's happening to...
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Em Buckman
Apr 2, 202412 min read
Sexuality, sex and gender
Some people seem very sure of their sexual preferences from an early age, some are confused for many years, and some change their minds...
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Em Buckman
Mar 29, 202413 min read
Marketing a book
Introduction Like many unsuspecting and naive aspiring authors, I paid no attention whatsoever to the concept of marketing my book when I...
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Em Buckman
Mar 17, 20248 min read
We need to talk about phobia and hatred
It's not an easy subject, but with hate speech against LGBT+ people on the rise, it's something that has to be addressed. Just exactly...
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Em Buckman
Mar 8, 20248 min read
Always an ally
And why I will never stop speaking out LGBT+ people in the UK have gained, for the first time in modern history, the same rights and...
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Em Buckman
Mar 2, 202411 min read
Mental health journeys through writing
It is well documented that writing can be extremely therapeutic, and I have always personally found this to be the case. In this slightly...
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Em Buckman
Feb 27, 20247 min read
Sex Education - a brief history
And why I am worried about the rights of our LGBT+ young people “Children require no set instruction in the physiology of sex as a...
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Em Buckman
Feb 24, 20247 min read
What is beta reading?
In this blog, I explore what beta reading is, what it isn't, and how I go about doing it. Finally, I offer my thoughts on why others...
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Em Buckman
Feb 21, 20249 min read
LGBT+ and the law - a brief history
From prosecution to protection When I was born in the early 1960s, it was illegal for two men to have sex with each other in this country....
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Em Buckman
Feb 17, 20247 min read
Researching for a non-fiction book:
Learning, listening and meeting your younger self Warning: contains references to abuse Researching for my book Bent Is Not Broken...
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Em Buckman
Feb 14, 20245 min read
LGBT+ history - a unique perspective
I was a teenage "fag hag." That was the original working title of my book before it was published, but nowadays the term "fag hag" is...
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Em Buckman
Feb 10, 20249 min read
Getting published the traditional way
You've written your manuscript! You've spent months, possibly years, slogging away to get this creation from the point where it exists...
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Em Buckman
Feb 8, 20247 min read
The impact of being outed
This picture used to haunt me. It was taken in 1970 and published in the county-wide Kent Messenger newspaper. I am the child caught in a...
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Em Buckman
Feb 3, 20245 min read
The demonising of being LGBT+
And why it has to stop Last night, I started watching the docu-drama series Alexander on Netflix. The opening scenes explained the...
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